@tomson Sorry i will reply to yours and eli comments here.
No need to be dramatic about it. I looked at all three styles. The minimum style seemed to be the most lowkey and the most appropriate color-wise. A black background with white text with no distractions. With the dark version I tried to look for the option to change colors of everything but struggled. I dont think the dark version in the latest update was properly tested. From my test the default looked awful.
I feel a sign of a good product is it being easy to use and even a manual not being necessary. Things like an iphone and ipad. who reads the manual? and they are big success stories.
in reply to eli's comment, yeah i understand sometimes change is good, having a modern look. But there are other issues like the comment form suiting the site. Some sites like stack overflow are very technical, some gaming sites are cutting edge etc. However some sites want to be simple or maybe feminine looking. So if id want to have mass appeal id go safe in the middle ground rather than narrowing into one area.
There are plugins that have alot of customisation in a simple menu. 'sassy social share' impressed me with everything being so customisable, user friendly and all in one page.
Anyway thankyou for the 2 years that the plugin helped my site. it improved the look of my site and knew it was the best plugin. However i feel i have to give this new look some time and see if can get the right results. if pushed id rather change a plugin than change my site.